Saturday, February 14, 2015

Are Most Lesbians Today That Way as a Purely Political Choice?

 
Re: “Radfem: No Woman is Heterosexual” (The Other McCain).
 

By Jerry PDX

Bettina Aptheker and Allison Jaggar are not unusual. There are similar writings by Dworkin, Mackinnon, Atkisson, ad nauseam....

These women hate men. Simple as that. They express it with long, tortured works that revolve around their virulent hatred. They are not only too socially maladjusted to have functional hetero relationships, they struggle to find same-sex partners, so they spend their time whipping up anger and hatred toward men, hoping to convince young women to choose to be lesbians, and thereby increase their potential partner pool.

Both conservatives and liberals might have a problem with what I'm about to say, but I believe it's true.

Homosexuality is usually innate in men. Men are driven by testosterone and impulse, when it comes to sex. They don't think about sexuality, they do what they feel compelled to do. Perhaps it's not genetic, but something influenced them at an early stage of development, and their urges are not conscious. So generally, men do not choose to be gay.

Women, however, are different, psychologically and biologically. They have estrogen, which does not drive a woman the way testosterone does a man. Women do think about and rationalize their sexuality, a woman will "decide" to become a homosexual, due to external cues. Radical feminists are women and understand this, thus their relentless combining of male-bashing with the suggestion that women should be lesbians. Of course, if you suggested that to them they would deny it vigorously, call you “homophobic,” and default to the gay party line that homosexuality is purely genetic.

This is all IMHO, of course, but I never see gay men cite bad relationships with women as a "reason" they became gay.

It's lesbians that associate bad behavior by men as a reason to be a lesbian. They don't always say it directly (though sometimes they just can't help themselves and do), but they do everything they possibly can do to insinuate it.

It's clear there's a contradiction between saying you're born gay, but that bastard of an ex-husband "made you gay." I've seen that contradiction many times on daytime talk shows from the early era of Donohue to talk shows in this era. Lesbians bashing men and making it clear their homosexuality is revenge against those abusive, cheating men is a stock device on talk shows.

There is some pretty strong evidence suggesting the media has influenced female homosexuality. I've seen stats indicating that 15% of women nowadays claim they are bisexual or lesbian, which is an enormous increase from 40 years ago (pre-talk show and lesbian porn being commodified by the mainstream media), when it was 3%.

Male homosexuality 40 yrs. ago was 5%; this era, it's virtually the same - 5%. No change, whatsoever. Of course, male homosexuality has not been promoted to underaged boys to the degree it has to underaged females, but it is still strongly presented and hasn't increased male homosexuality statistically. Once men mature past infancy, I don't believe they choose to be gay due to environmental factors.

Girls will, though, so this blitz of lesbian imagery is an abuse and an exploitation of young female minds.

It's not just feminist theorists, though. Mainstream liberal females, as well as males participate in this for their own selfish reasons. Profit is a primary motivation—it seems that the entertainment industry believes that lesbians generate ratings. Maybe they do, I don't know, but there is so much gratuitous lesbianism on TV/movies now, it seems like over-saturation would dilute the subject. The entertainment industry doesn't seem to think so, though. You can't avoid lesbian soft-core porn, if you try. We also know our daughters are being exposed to this crap at earlier and earlier ages, which is exactly what the radical and not-so-radical lesbians want.


8 comments:

jeigheff said...

My wife's sister and husband have three young adult children, two females and one male. One of their daughters, "Julie", is a lesbian, and lives with her female lover.

I see my in-laws only a couple times a year, so there has never been much opportunity for serious, yet polite, discussion about how their daughter became a lesbian. However, Julie's father recently told me that he is convinced that Julie's genes made her a lesbian, and that she didn't make a choice. As he told me this last December, his expression was quite pained.

A couple years ago, Julie and her lover had a public "wedding" ceremony, which has no legal standing here in Texas. My wife and other family members and friends attended. (I couldn't do it.) Photos were taken at this "happy" event. It's interesting to see the beaming, oblivious faces of the ladies at the gay couple's marriage contrasted by the considerable sadness seen on the face of Julie's father. This irony is apparently lost on his wife; one of these photos is framed and is on proud display in their home.

I really like and care about my in-laws, all of them, even Julie. But I believe she has made a really bad choice. (I believe the Bible's warnings about homosexuality are there for a reason.) I have always liked Julie's mother, who is a very sweet and sensitive woman; I married her sister, after all. But it's painful to see Julie's mom become radicalized, concerning her Christian faith, on account of her love for her wayward daughter.

If I were in Julie's parents' shoes, it wouldn't be easy. But none of us can embrace sin and say it's right just because someone in our family chooses to live sinfully.

Anonymous said...

I know I'm old school when it comes to the topic of gays. I have to admit that the creep factor with them still exist. Gay men on the surface may be fun to work with, but do not cross them. They are notoriously vindictive.There is often a mean spirit in lesbians. They have an agenda beyond their sexuality. I was told by gays to not rent my condo out to gays, because they will stiff you with the rent. There is often a dishonesty that accompanies their anything goes behavior. I had a gay tenant from hell. After he no longer rented from me, he used the keys to come back to the condo with men he picked up. He deliberately left a rug behind with the pretext of coming back for it. One night while I was staying in the rental condo he turned the keys and was with another man. The next day I had the locks changed.

Fisk Ellington Rutledge III said...

This is anecdotal to some extent, but this is what I have observed.

When I was 7 years old, I had a pal down the street. I used to spend a lot of time at his house, and even at that age, I perceived that his father was extremely effeminate. I asked my Dad about this, and his answer was, "Son, he's what we call a queer." This queer was married and had one kid, but sure enough, some 45 years later, this father was caught buying the services of homosexual prostitutes and participating in homosexual orgies at the advanced age of about 70.

Also, some of the guys I knew in elementary school who were considered sissies and queers all turned out to be homosexual (to the extent that I knew how they turned out).

My impression is that male homosexuality is like a birth defect; the comparison is exact. Male homosexuality seems to come with an entire complex of character defects and chronic childishness. They seem to be uniformly miserable and have profoundly addictive personalities.

Male homosexuals also generally exhibit physical differences from normal men. There's an entire spectrum, so it's not always obvious, but so many, many homos are obvious by first impression. I believe that for most male homos it is actually a birth defect.

This is to some extent true with female homos, but to a much lesser degree. Women in general seem to be a LOT more comfortable touching each other and deriving pleasure from that physical intimacy. For women I think it's a much hazier difference between homo and hetero; a shorter spectrum of sexual behavior.

I even dated a woman in my youth who appeared to be almost perfectly bisexual. I think she was a bit biased toward hetero (ahem, maybe it was just ME she was biased toward), but she certainly was enamored of the same kind of physical female beauty as I was. She didn't like butch lesbians at all and she herself was extremely feminine.

At any rate, it is crystal clear that male homosexuality is a birth defect and/or a mental illness. With women it is something a bit less serious with the potential for going one way or another more widespread. IMHO.

Chicago guy said...

George H W Bush Sr and his wife Barbara were guests and acted as an official witness at a same-sex wedding-two women- in Maine in 2013.
That's our so-called "conservative" Republican former president.

Anonymous said...

Years ago when my daughters were still preteens we attended a girls birthday party, I was the only father there, other than that it was just soccer moms. The radio was on during the party and the Katy Perry song "I kissed a Girl" came on. The girls in the party started singing along with the song and a few of them pantomimed kissing each other. I looked at the faces of the mothers at the party and some of them looked away and tried to ignore it, others just kind of smiled in a kind of clueless, it's kind of cute way and a couple seemed disturbed, but nobody said anything. I stepped in and turned off the radio and told the girls to stop, the clueless moms glared at me but said nothing, the rest just acted like they didn't notice. A couple of the moms continued to shoot dagger eyes at me until the end of the party like I was some kind of bigoted homophobe but still didn't say anything directly. I always wondered just how many underage girls were influenced by that particular pop star or others pop stars who promote lesbianism. My girls are adult age now and are definitely not lesbians but I raised them to be people who are responsible and take responsibility, I'm pretty sure young girls raised in that way won't be influenced by those messages. Too bad so many parents don't have that philosophy.
Speaking of that Katy Perry, she is quite a piece of work, I looked up her stage show and discovered a very disturbing video, someone online posted parts of her concert show and linked her to pedophilia. I think they're absolutely right. Her stage show is filled with imagery designed to appeal to children is highly sexualized, and focused on lesbianism when she sings her signature song (Kissed a Girl). Look at the young children in the audience, do their parents even think about what message is being sent to their kids? Especially their daughters. I wonder how they would feel if a gay male celeb was tailoring a show with male homosexuality being shoved in the faces of their underage boys? I suspect they would be outraged. Why do they stay silent when it's their daughters?
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=gbpRBs7nhBs

Nicholas said...

Anon Sunday, February 15, 2015 at 1:45:00 AM EST

Good for you!

Until I saw the Super Bowl, Katy Perry was just the name of a pop singer with fake breasts, and who looked attractive with more makeup on than a 10th Avenue hooker. (I would imagine that she is not naturally attractive.) I had no idea what her signature song was, and I couldn't make out the lyrics to what she sang at halftime.

I guess that's why they hired her.

"A couple of the moms continued to shoot dagger eyes at me until the end of the party like I was some kind of bigoted homophobe but still didn't say anything directly."

They must have been feminists.

Where were you living at the time?

Anonymous said...

The vile lesbian influence in pop music began mostly with that slut Madonna. When I first heard Katy Perry sing Kissed a Girl I was in disbelief. I applaud the dad who turned off that song. I remember people mocking the Legion of Decency, yes it was extreme censorship, but now there is no decency.

Anonymous said...

At the time Sacrament CA, believe me, that place has it's share of radical feminists, maybe not as much when you go east to the San Fran/Oakland area but still plenty.
If you think Katy Perry is bad you should look into T.A.T.U. They were a Russian import 90's female duo whose whole identity revolved around them being underage lesbians, they were actually underage when they started and were promoted to very young girls, their song lyrics were all about lesbianism and their stage shows filled will simulated lesbian sex acts, they originated in Russia and then became a big hit here in America. Some people did complain but for the most part people in the US were indifferent underage girls performing simulated sex acts on stage in front of underage girls. Ironically neither girl was actually lesbian herself, one left the group and was replaced by the manager's girlfriend. I'm always astounded at the way hetero women will promote homosexuality to underage girls with as much vigor as radical lesbians.

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=nZnYHP8551E

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=hsAz3qjO6Qg